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Knowledge is POWER.
Gender: M
Age: 44
State: VA
Country: USA
Experience...
I once met this woman who I thought was it, she was gentle,kind, sweet, and thoughtful. After dating her and spending time with her I found her to be someone I wanted to spend my life with. During our first outings
she had a jealous rant with another woman who came to say hello because that woman was happy to see someone with the woman I was dating, it was an unhealthy jealous rant, later on that day I talked to her about it and she told me I wanted this other woman. I was taken by surprise. I had absolutely no interest in the other woman. She did not think so. Lesson to be learned here is you never know what the other person thinks or feels
even when you think you know them. After a few months we started living together, within a week she accused me of, disrespecting her, not giving her my time, not keeping my eyes on her in public, bottomline she felt she was not the object of my affection, thoughts and sight. Interesting. She had a way of transmitting her feelings to surround me and eventually inflict her thoughts and ways upon me. A web but far worse. These tentacles began to control my every thought, movement and action. I felt her thoughts began to restrict my actions, and thought in a way I`ve never felt before. I began to understand the spiritual nature of life. I no matter what I said to convince her that what she felt and thought were not actual, she would become enraged and say it is exactly as I feel and think.
After a year and a half of this non-sense, I realized she was not interested in me at all just what she could get and leave and on to the next poor sucker.
Lesson I`ve learned from this:
Once a person with a motive and drive is to acquire cash and material things is bent on this, no one can deter them. Life is a about giving and receiving; more so giving; if acquiring is your goal you will soon lose what you have acquired, because life is a cycle like the rain that falls and waters the earth and returns back up to where it came from and thus the cycle continues endlessly. Giving is the answer. I gave her all. She took all. Give and wait to receive. That is the law of life.
She left in the middle of the night not word heard since. Give till you drop. Then wait patiently for it all to return. The amount you receive
will be more than the amount you gave.
Those who take, end up loosing all they took. Believe this. It is a natural law, not synthetic man made laws. [391]
Gender: F
Age: 20
State: NV
Country: usa
Experience...
I met a guy about a year and a half ago through a friend of mine. he seemed like a very nice person we became friends then room matetes every thing was going well till i went on a date with the manager of the building. I went on this date and just everything went wrong he at the end of this date he treated me like the worst crap in the world. He even made me get out his car and walk home in the middle of the night. My friend had told me not to trust this guy but me knowing that hes wanted to get with me scince the very start i thought he was just being jelous. I knew they didnt like each other but i never thought it would go as far as the maneger using me to get back at my room mate. I was treated like crap that day along with sexual harrassment along with having no way home in the middle of almost nowhere. People if a friend tells you something judging on how good of a friend that person is PLEASE LISTEN TO THEM! [212]
Gender: F
Age: 15
State: mass
Country: united states
Experience...
ever scince i was little my mom whould always say``dont talk to strangers,if somone pulls up next to u, run the other way``.i always thought this was stupid until this year. i was on vacation. we were staying a week at this persons house that knew us. anyway, it was about 10;20pm whene i dicided to walk my dog up the street and back. what i didnt tell my parents was that i actualy wanted to hang out with some kids i saw earlyer a couple blocks away, and hang out[stupid idea ].anyway,by the time i got their no one was around. the whole way back i had a badgut feeling, whene sudenly i noticed a truck with its lighs on, slowly apearing from behind me. it slowly, almost stopped beside me, whene i looked in their wasv a man leaning over like about to say somthing. i turned and ran, dragging my dog behind, and ran behind an empty house. i picked up my dog whene i thougt it was safe and ran, relizing that as i got near a curve in the road, i saw a truck with its lights on. the guy was yelling some name, pretending to be calling a friend from in his house.at this point i was under a single bush in the front yard of an emty house. he slowly came up the road, his lights shone right through the bush and i though i was ganna give me away. it seemed like forever til his truck slowly disapearde. i ran as fast as i could to the house. ive never told anyone but my friend, and ive defenetly learned my lesson! [120]
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